When the love of your life is also your best friend, you will have met the perfect soul mate
If you are lucky enough to find true love and also have a true friend by your side, you can feel satisfied and complete.
However, when both coexist in the same person then one can almost speak of a miracle, of a one in a million chance, or of a state of grace in which happiness is not only the condition of a moment but it is a way of being.
It is this kind of feeling that we want to talk about today because trying to describe it will also help you to recognize it.
When the love of one's life is also your best friend then a relationship of extraordinary understanding and complicity is created, in which there is trust, teamwork, deep understanding, and no secrets.
In the couple, there are no gray areas, mysteries, or gaps to fill, but only clarity and understanding.
Between two lovers/friends one experiences the sensation of security and protection, a bond that goes beyond mere physical attraction or mental or social constraints but where there is only the freedom to be oneself and the awareness of mutual belonging without the slavery of possession.
In this kind of relationship, that is so wonderful and full, all the difficult moments and troublesome times are lived with serenity and lightness.
Crises and setbacks are overcome together and each time you manage to meet halfway, knowing that the only way to win is to do it together.
In a love/friendship relationship, one can show oneself vulnerable, fragile, and one can even not be looking one's best, forgetting for once the hairdresser, the barber or the beautician because one loves the other both in form and substance.
You get angry but you always make peace, you yell but you end up whispering in each other's ear, and you can cry but only until the next laugh.
To the traditional marriage vows, they should add: "Do you also want to be my best friend ...?". Because this is the true essence of loving each other.
Being there for one another, not only as a man and a woman, a husband and a wife but also as traveling companions who decide to follow a life path together.
On this life path, if one lingers the other waits for them, because in two you can be stronger, happier, and because in two you can finally feel complete.
